Q: Why do young adults need Financial Powers of Attorney and Health Care Directives?

A: At age 18, your child is legally an adult. Because of increasingly protective privacy rules, without these documents in place parents can’t access their adult child’s medical or financial information, or be involved with making medical decisions about their child.

For example, if your child goes to school out of state and you receive a call that they have been involved in an accident, medical staff very likely will not speak to you about your child’s condition until you present a medical power of attorney (called an Advance Health Care Directive in Maryland)

Also, health care providers may not consult you about your child’s care if your child does not have a healthcare directive in place

Q: What issues do a Financial Power of Attorney and Health Care Directive cover?

A: A Financial Power of Attorney should address who your child wishes to manage his or her finances, if something were to happen.

It should allow access to your child’s educational records and information, so that in an emergency, you can speak to the school; very helpful if your child is studying abroad. Also, a Health Care Directive will allow your adult child to designate who he or she would like to act on their behalf in a medical emergency, if they are unable to make their own decisions

Q: Are these documents easy to prepare? Can a parent find them online and fill them out themselves?

A: Yes, parents can find the documents online and prepare on their own.

However, I caution against doing that simply because it would be very easy to use documents that are not compliant with the law, or that don’t cover all of the necessary issues.

Q: What do you suggest parents do?

A: When your child turns 18, make arrangements to have him/her execute a Financial Power of Attorney and Health Care Directive. Our firm offers a Young Adult Package. Click HERE for additional info.

If your child is away at school, schedule a meeting with an estate planning attorney over their winter break. Remember, the child is the client, not the parents, even if they are paying the bill, so the child must be present to understand and execute the documents.

Once the documents are executed, put them in a safe place and upload the documents to your phone so you can access and send quickly if needed.