Last month we began looking at how a civil union between man and wife happens under Thai law. We discussed the various intrica­cies involved in the betrothal and the marriage itself; this week we endeavor to continue our journey into the marital laws of Thailand by examining how a divorce oc­curs in Thailand.

The phrase “till death do us part” is a worthy sentiment and if of­ten used to signify the long-last­ing journey a couple is about to commence; but in practice there are almost always other off-ramps. Thai law provides ex­plicitly that a marriage can end in one of three ways: death, di­vorce or by being cancelled by the court (via an annulment). The first is self-explanatory; this month we’ll look at the second. According to the statistics pro­vided by the Thai Ministry of Social Development and Human Security and the National Statis­tical Office, 2012 saw 314,338 couples marry in Thailand and 111,377 divorces, giving a di­vorce rate of 2.03/1,000 people of marriageable age. Though the national divorce rate has been increasing, it remains much low­er than in Latvia (3.6/1,000), Lithuania (3.5/1,000) and Den­mark (2.8/1,000), the nations with the highest rates in Europe in 2012.

So how exactly is a divorce de­fined under Thai law? Under the Civil and Commercial Code, a di­vorce is defined as the dissolu­tion of a marriage by (a) mutual consent of the couple; or (b) the judgment of the court based on one of the grounds for divorce enumerated in the Civil and Com­mercial Code. The simplest of the two methods described above is the dissolution of a marriage by mutual consent of the spouses. This, in theory is the quickest and least expensive route for couples to take. Dissolution by mutu­al consent does not require the couple to seek legal representa­tion, though it is recommended so that each of them fully under­stands their legal rights and so that a good divorce settlement agreement can be drawn up. The process involves paying a visit to the Amphur (district office) and submitted a joint request for dis­solution of the marriage to the officer in charge.

Unlike contested divorces, a dis­solution of a marriage by mutual consent does not require the cou­ple to prove any of the grounds of divorce, but they must file an agreement in regards to (a) the division of any personal or mar­ital property; (b) custody of the children of the marriage; and (c) alimony. To finalize the process, both parties are required to be present at the Amphur when reg­istering the divorce so as to pub­lically demonstrate their mutual consent.

Of course, in many cases divorce is unlikely to be achieved by mutual consent. A contested di­vorce requires the couple to ap­pear in court, sometimes on mul­tiple occasions, each with the representation of a Thai lawyer. The cost, time and emotional toil can be considerable; it has been said that there are no winners in a divorce except the lawyers.

For a contested divorce the cou­ple must file a petition to court based on one of the grounds of divorce set out in the Civil and Commercial Code. These grounds includes situations where (a) one spouse is guilty of adultery, or of misconduct which results in the other being ashamed, insulted, hated or injured; (b) one spouse has deserted the other for over a year; (c) one spouse is suffering from a communicable and dan­gerous disease which may cause injury to the other; (d) one spouse is permanently physically disadvantaged making the cou­ple unable to cohabit; (e) one spouse has seriously insulted the other or his or her ascendants (be careful what you say about your mother-in-law) and (f) the spouses having lived separately because of being unable to co­habit peacefully for more than three years.

The Thai grounds for divorce are predominantly based on “faults” committed by one of the spous­es or impairments affecting a spouse. Thus if a marriage breaks down naturally, such as due to a divergence in the expectations or priorities of the spouses, under Thai law the only option, unless a divorce by mutual consent is pursued, is to file for a divorce after 3 years of living separate­ly. These grounds for divorce in Thailand are similar to those seen in other jurisdictions. For exam­ple, Canada has a no-fault con­cept of “permanent breakdown” of the marriage as a ground for divorce. To establish a “perma­nent breakdown” of a marriage the spouses must live separately for at least one year before con­sidering a formal divorce. Unlike in many common law jurisdic­tions, Thai law does not require as a precondition to divorce that the couple go to marital coun­seling to try and salvage the mar­riage. Where a contested divorce occurs between the spouses, the Court will in detail examine the relationship of the spouses as a divorce can have multiple conse­quences for the couple in terms of their children and their assets. Expatriates beware, if you wish to get a divorce in Thailand, make sure your legal representative can advise on whether the divorce in Thailand will be recognized in the country where the marriage was first registered. If you get this wrong it could lead to subse­quent inadvertent bigamy, among other unpleasant consequences. Divorces do not always need to be fodder for dramatic Hollywood movies; they can be a relatively simple process where the couple’s relationship has broken down and they wish to end things amica­bly by mutual consent. Unfortu­nately, that may be the exception rather than the rule.